Getting Ready
November 2005 - May 2006

When a couple is “paper-ready” it means they have all their documents in place, notarized, certified, and authenticated, and are ready to be matched with a child.  The paper-chasing part of international adoption is long, sometimes more than 6 months.  Birth certificates, finger prints, criminal record reports, medical reports and many many other documents are compiled into a dossier.  Once the agency has the complete dossier, they can assign a child to the couple.  Because we decided to travel to Guatemala BEFORE our dossier was complete (which has freaked out more than one person!), we had no idea if we would receive a boy or a girl.  We packed both boy clothes and girl clothes and were excited for either one. 


   
The Referral Story

We traveled by chicken bus all over the Western Highlands of Guatemala, from the beautiful Lake Atitlan and the surrounding pueblos, to the major city of Xela (Quetzaltenango) and the market towns around it, to the isolated village of Todos Santos, tucked away in the highlands by way of a windy mountain dirt road in the rain.  After three weeks of markets, archaeological sites, textile hunting, fútbol matches, and great Guatemalan típico food, we headed back to Antigua to rest and wait for our referral that we expected any day. 

 

On Thursday 8 June, after a full day of traveling, we were on our final chicken bus ride, almost to Antigua, when the agency called.  Cheryl just knew it was the agency.  She turned to Brian and said, “It’s them! They have a referral for us!” 

Brian said, “Don’t tell me anything! I don’t want to hear about it on a chicken bus!”

Cheryl asked if she could call her back and she said she would not be in the office and that she had a child for us and wanted to tell us.  Cheryl said ok, and noticed all the Guatemalan women on the bus watching her talk on the cell phone.  She said, “It’s a BOY! His name is Walter Steven, and he is 2 weeks old.” 

She couldn’t wait to tell Brian, but he just smiled and said, “I don’t want to know yet!”  About to burst with the information, she tried to stay patient long enough for us to get to our house in Antigua.  Finally, we arrived in front of our house on Calle Camposeco, and she told him we had a son. We were both thrilled to know our son was here!


   
Visiting Guatemala's Southern Coast

  We accepted the referral the following afternoon and one week later (16 June) we traveled to Guatemala City to sign the formal paperwork, officially starting our fostering/adopting process.


Since we had a few weeks before we thought we would start fostering, we decided to take a trip to the southern (Pacific) coast of Guatemala to visit Alessandro´s birthtown, the hometown of his birth-mother, and some Olmec and Mayan archaeologic sites.

   
Last days as a childless couple!
  While visiting the Pacific coastal town of Monterrico, our adoption agency called and informed us that our baby was ready to be picked up.  We were shocked.  We thought that we had at least another week. We quickly cancelled our remaining travel plans (one of the world's best and well-known archaeological sites - Tikal) and packed our bags for the capital.

Getting there
  The next morning we boarded an early morning launcha (power-boat ferry) through the mangrove swamps of Monterrico, hopped on a waiting camioneta, or "chicken bus" (yes they do sometimes carry chickens) and arrived in Guatemala around noon.  We navigated scores of taxi drivers and the public bus system to arrive in the correct neighborhood of the capital.

  Since we were a few hours early, we grabbed a cheap lunch and then waited until our meeting time, passing the time watching a riveting World Cup Football match between México and Argentina.  We pulled ourselves away from an overtime match to go meet our new son.

   
We would like you to meet your son ...
  On Saturday, 24 June, We walked down the street and into the most grandiose and ritzy hotel in the country - the Westin Camino Real.  We were ushered into this small room and nervously waited for a few minutes.  After what seemed like 20 minutes, our foster mother, Marta, walked into the room carrying Alessandro.

  After a short and very formal presentation, Marta handed D´Ale (pronounced Dee-ah-lay) over to Brian.  A few minutes later, Brian relinquished his new son to the arms of the very excited Cheryl.  Twenty minutes of oogling and conversation with our agency liaison (Maryelana) and Marta, we were given a few bottles, a few changes of clothes, and some formula and were on our own!  Talk about nervous and excited at the same time. :)

Good Luck ...
   We started fostering D'Ale on that Saturday.  Our taxi driver took us to a supermarket near the hotel, where Cheryl ran in to get some formula and diapers for Alessandro and food for us.  We were heading to our home in Antigua with a four week old child and no instruction book, no friends or relatives to ask for help and only a few bottles with which to feed him!